Who is this guy behind the scenes at Black Mammoth? Well, that's me – a man of many roles and experiences, each shaping my perspective on life, relationships, and the pursuit of true prosperity. As I navigate fatherhood, marriage, caring for others, entrepreneurship, sports, and a quest for authenticity, I've learned some valuable lessons that have led me to where I am today. Let's dive into the tapestry of my life and unveil the layers that make up my identity.

A Father Guided by Experience

First and foremost, I am a father. The proud dad of Lincoln (8) and Croix (6), two bundles of energy with distinct personalities. Parenthood is a journey of revelations. What no one tells you is that you might notice your own "flaws" reflected in your children's tendencies. My experience as an athlete taught me the importance of effort, and I've learned to exercise restraint when guiding my boys in their sports endeavors. This is no easy task – a lesson I never anticipated from fatherhood.

My childhood was marked by challenges that drove me to be the father I am today. Raised by a hardworking mother who battled alcoholism and eventually lost her life in 2021, I witnessed tragedy and racism from a young age. Despite these trials, the love and care of various families, including the Wilkinsons and Flemings, sculpted who I've become as a father. I'm committed to sharing the lessons I've learned, ensuring my boys benefit without enduring the same traumas.

A Husband Committed to Partnership

Next comes my role as a husband. My wife Michelle and I have faced numerous challenges, but our athletic backgrounds taught us to never shy away from a battle. Marriage, undoubtedly, is a journey of ups and downs that demands teamwork, even in the most challenging times. We're approaching our 11th anniversary this June, a testament to our shared commitment to weathering life's storms together.

Marriage was a foreign concept to me, growing up without a stable marital example. But through my journey, I've come to understand that it's a lifelong commitment to navigating life's trials and triumphs hand in hand. This understanding was forged in the fires of a challenging upbringing, instilling in me the drive to rise above circumstances.

A Champion of Others

My inherent care for others has often been mistaken for weakness – a misconception I've proven wrong time and again. To me, humanity matters above all else. Our duty as humans is to uplift and support each other, treating everyone with equality and respect. It's a mindset that seems to be eroding in our modern world, from senseless shootings to global conflicts. But I stand firm in my belief that we can make a difference by standing together, transcending money, politics, and personal agendas.

This inclination towards embracing others is rooted in my personal history. Raised by multiple families and lacking a stable upbringing, I've recognized that true family can be formed through shared love and battles. While this approach has led to some failures and missteps, it has ultimately made me stronger.

A Visionary Entrepreneur

Black Mammoth – that's the name of my firm. It symbolizes boldness and prosperity, leading people to financial abundance just as mammoths once led animals to water sources. My entrepreneurial journey stems from a profound belief that wealth isn't solely about money; it's about understanding oneself and finding happiness beyond financial gains. My goal is to empower my clients to build real wealth, focusing on their passions and desires.

Through various ventures, from insurance to wealth management, I've honed my skills to guide others towards financial freedom. Legacy Fiduciary Services and Kala Capital are the fruits of this journey, all centered around my core purpose: educating and leading others to prosperity. It's a path that's been complex, but through it all, I've found my true focus – ensuring my clients experience the best financial journey possible.

A Former Collegiate Athlete

As a former collegiate athlete, I proudly wore the jersey of Drake University's Bulldogs. Those years formed a brotherhood that has forever impacted my life. We clinched conference championships, traveled the globe, and left our mark everywhere we played. This bond is dispersed across the country now, but the lessons and memories endure.

The transition from a high-level athlete to life beyond the field is riddled with challenges and emotional hurdles. The abrupt end of my career due to injury, coupled with the separation from the brotherhood I'd formed, resulted in a unique form of trauma. These experiences warrant a closer examination, as they echo the emotional toll faced by veterans returning from service.

A Voice for Humanity, Not Politics

I want to make one thing clear – I'm not a politician. My stance isn't Republican or Democrat; it's independent, driven by the greater good of humanity. In a world where political agendas often overshadow the needs of the people, I believe it's our duty to stand up for each other. Regardless of our differences in money, religion, or politics, our humanity unites us.

Embracing Imperfections

I am far from perfect – my journey is marked with flaws and missteps. But the mistakes I've made have been rooted in good intentions, often fueled by over-trusting or a lack of complete understanding. These experiences have shaped me, teaching me to become stronger through every challenge. I encourage you to embrace imperfections, learning from failures, and discerning between those who genuinely fail and those who are simply narcissistic.

The Essence of Stoy

So, who am I? I'm a humble individual, driven by the desire to see everyone succeed. My journey is a tapestry woven with lessons and experiences that have led me here. My flaws serve as stepping stones, and my successes fuel my commitment to guide others towards their best selves. Amid the stresses of life and the negativity that sometimes pervades our circles, remember: you have the power to shape your life. And if you need a helping hand, I'm here, not just as a financial advisor, but as a partner in your pursuit of prosperity.