Today, we're diving into a topic that's near and dear to my heart: the power of embracing both wins and losses in life. Buckle up, because we're about to explore why the motto "You win some, you lose some, keep moving forward" is so crucial for success and happiness.

Why This Motto Matters

Let's get real for a second. Life isn't always sunshine and rainbows. Sometimes, it feels like we're stuck in a never-ending rainstorm. But here's the thing: those storms don't last forever, and neither do the sunny days. That's where our motto comes in handy.

"Early on in my life and career, both as an athlete and then professionally, I had the same trajectory. I used to think everything needed to be perfect." - Stoy Hall, CFP®

Growing up, I was all about perfection. Maybe you can relate. But let me tell you, chasing perfection is like trying to catch a greased pig – it's exhausting, and you'll probably end up face-first in the mud.

The Problem with Perfection

Perfection is a tricky beast. It can make us:

• Afraid to take risks

• Too hard on ourselves

• Miss out on great opportunities

Instead of aiming for perfect, we should aim for progress. That's where the "win some, lose some" part comes in.

Understanding the Win-Lose Cycle

Life is full of ups and downs. It's like riding a roller coaster – there are thrilling highs and stomach-dropping lows. But guess what? That's totally normal!

Here's a quick breakdown:

1. Wins: These are the good times. Celebrate them!

2. Losses: These are the tough times. Learn from them!

3. Moving Forward: This is the key to success. Keep going, no matter what!

"You're going to lose some reps and you're going to win some, but it doesn't matter. The next one matters. That next step matters. That next rep matters, not the previous ones." - Stoy Hall, CFP®

How to Adopt This Mindset

Now, you might be thinking, "Stoy, this sounds great, but how do I actually do this?" Don't worry, I've got your back. Here are some steps to help you embrace the "win some, lose some" mindset:

1. Know Yourself

First things first, you need to understand who you are. This isn't just some fluffy self-help advice – it's crucial for your success.

• What makes you tick?

• What brings you down?

• Are you a perfectionist like I was?

Knowing these things about yourself will help you navigate both wins and losses more effectively.

2. Celebrate Your Wins (But Don't Dwell on Them)

When something good happens, take a moment to enjoy it. Pat yourself on the back. Do a little happy dance. But then, get ready for what's next.

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3. Learn from Your Losses (But Don't Let Them Define You)

Losses hurt. There's no way around it. But instead of letting them knock you down, use them as stepping stones.

• What went wrong?

• What can you do differently next time?

• How can you grow from this experience?

4. Keep Your Eyes on the Long Game

Life is a marathon, not a sprint. It's easy to get caught up in day-to-day ups and downs, but try to zoom out and look at the bigger picture.

"If you look at this like we do the stock market, getting back to investments, because that's what a lot of you care about, it's the long term. This is a long journey. It's not a sprint. It is legitimately a marathon." - Stoy Hall, CFP®

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5. Align Your Actions with Your Values

Once you know who you are and what matters to you, make sure your actions line up with those values. This applies to everything – your career, your relationships, and yes, even your finances.

"True wealth is your ability to live life on your own, how you want to give back to others and enjoy it. You necessarily can't do that if you're spending on things that do not align with who you are." - Stoy Hall, CFP®

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Real-Life Examples

Let's break this down with some everyday examples:

1. Job Loss: Losing a job can feel like a major setback. But it can also be an opportunity to find a better fit or start that business you've been dreaming about.

2. Failed Investment: Nobody likes losing money. But every investment mistake is a chance to learn and make better decisions in the future.

3. Relationship Breakup: Heartbreak hurts. But it also teaches us about what we want and need in a partner.

4. Missed Promotion: Not getting that promotion you wanted stings. But it can motivate you to work harder or seek opportunities elsewhere.

Remember, in each of these situations, the key is to acknowledge the loss, learn from it, and keep moving forward.

Wrapping It Up

Life is full of wins and losses. The secret isn't to avoid losses – that's impossible. The secret is to learn how to handle both wins and losses with grace and keep pushing forward.

"You're gonna win some, you're gonna lose some. Just keep moving forward. Please keep moving forward." - Stoy Hall, CFP®

So, the next time you're faced with a win or a loss, remember:

1. Celebrate or acknowledge it

2. Learn from it

3. Keep moving forward

You've got this! And if you need help along the way, especially when it comes to your finances, don't hesitate to reach out. We're here to help you navigate life's financial ups and downs.

Remember, at the end of the day, it's not about being perfect. It's about progress. So keep winning, keep losing, and most importantly, keep moving forward!